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Help for Dealing with a Your Aging Parents

Alzheimer’s Disease and dementia are NOT the only reasons to be concerned about a solid estate plan for your aging parents, but fear of these devastating conditions is a major factor in prompting families to begin the estate planning process.

Contact Stan at Pierchsoki Estate Law to help you formulate a plan to assist with the changing needs of aging parents.

Decreased mental capacity is a very real concern. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, someone in the U.S. is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s every 67 seconds and more than five million Americans are living with the disease. In addition, over 15.5 million Americans are providing unpaid care to loved ones diagnosed with dementia.

Whatever you do, do not rely on the Court system to help you become guardian or conservator of your parent. We’ve been working through some nightmare scenarios where children didn’t have a trusted advisor on their side, got the Court involved and ended up losing all of their parents assets to a System that is unnecessary.

Dealing with a parent’s diagnosis of dementia can be overwhelming for many families, but there are steps you can (and should) take to ensure their affairs will be handled properly:

  1. Discuss the diagnosis with your siblings or other close family members. It is important not to try to handle everything on your own.
  2. Review with your parent which advisors (accountants, attorneys, stockbrokers, financial planners) are handling each aspect of their affairs.
  3. Be sure your parent has executed an advance medical directive and a HIPAA release form so that you can have access to their medical records and consult with their medical caregivers.
  4. Do not wait – Alzheimer’s can and does progress at drastically different rates for different people. Delay can make it much more difficult to deal with.
  5. Talk to an estate planning attorney to ensure your parent’s legal paperwork is in order before it becomes too late and your parent is no longer competent to execute legal documents. Find out if your parent has put protections in place via a will, trust, Durable Power of Attorney, Living Will, etc.
  6. Set up meetings with the parent’s advisors to review the status of tax planning and payment, investments, care of assets, status of regular bills and health matters.
  7. Divvy up responsibilities with siblings or other family members.
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